It was a long drive on Tuesday. I'd forgotten how tiring it is to spend 5 or so hours at the wheel. Wednesday, I was very stiff, but at least I knew what had caused those aches! And the unexpected pains of the day before had disappeared, so they were almost certainly psychosomatic.
Seeing old friends is always a lovely thing to do. I've really enjoyed meeting many friends, but have discovered that I now find it quite tiring to meet with more than one or two at a time. This is something that surprises me, as I used to be far more sociable and enjoyed meeting several friends at once. It could be a function of having been ill, or it might be related to the fact that I now live in an area that is much more isolated and where life is slower-paced, so I have time to talk to friends in more depth. It was an interesting discovery - maybe I'm going to turn into a recluse!
What I've learned from this visit is how valuable my friends are. I was aware of how supportive they've been over the last few months, and I've been very grateful for that, but I hadn't realised until now how much that support has carried me through diagnosis, treatment and the aftermath. To have so many people who want me to visit while I'm here is amazing!
Today, I drive home. It's a holiday weekend, so I'm taking it slowly. I was only almost killed once on my way here, so I'm aiming at getting that 'almost killed' total down to zero this time!
1 comment:
Lesley, you wrote:
"What I've learned from this visit is how valuable my friends are. I was aware of how supportive they've been over the last few months, and I've been very grateful for that, but I hadn't realised until now how much that support has carried me through diagnosis, treatment and the aftermath. To have so many people who want me to visit while I'm here is amazing!"
This is in line with my experience. During my stay in hospital last year I found out how many really good friends I have - friends who visited me and who offered drive my wife Sally (who cannot drive) to see me. During the first few months of my recovery I was also grateful for their support.
This weekend is our younger daughter's 1st wedding anniversary - and also the 5th wedding anniversary of my elder daughter. Sally and I could not attend our younger daughter's wedding in Barbados last year, as I was still too unfit to travel, so yesterday we had a "re-run", a small family celebration - great food and great booze in the garden of my daughter's home. It's great to be able to celebrate once more, and I really appreciate the value of a loving family.
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